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Long-lost friend to give man a kidney, second chance at life

Tuesday, November 17th, 2009

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by Rosa Flores / 11 News

Posted on November 17, 2009 at 8:22 AM

CONROE, Texas—A middle school reunion gave a Conroe man a second chance at life.

Travis McGuillian had open heart surgery, diabetes and kidney failure, so he thought his days were numbered. But after reuniting with some old middle school friends, he found more than just support—he found a friend willing to give up a kidney to save his life.

“It was a conviction. I felt a very strong need to find out if I could help,” said his donor, Daun Wade.

McGuillian and Wade were best friends during their middle school years. He played football, and she cheered for the team.

Back in 1974, they made a promise to each other that they never forgot.

“We made the agreement that if we had not found anyone to marry that we would marry each other,” said Wade.

“I always thought about her. I wondered if she was married or not,” said McGuillian.

Then life happened, and they lost touch.

Wade married someone else, and so did McGuillian.

About five months ago, they reunited, but McGuillian had some bad news for Wade.

“I found out about the open heart surgery, the dialysis, the diabetes,” said Wade.

She also learned about the kidney McGuillian needed to keep living. Wade said she felt a calling to give him her kidney. After months of tests, the two friends found out they were a perfect match.

“So I told him that as soon as he gets my kidney he’s going to have a female part so he’s going to start laughing at commercials,” said Wade.

The transplant is set for Tuesday, and their Facebook page is lighting up with messages. It’s also reminding them of a promise made long ago.

“This is what I had written in his annual back in 8th grade. Love ya forever… now you’re going to have a piece of me forever,” Wade said.

Wade will miss work for about 6 weeks while she recuperates from the surgery. McGuillian set up a Web site and hopes to raise enough money to cover his donor’s lost wages. If you’d like to help, just go to www.traviskidney.com.

“Parishioner’s prayers for kidney answered by her priest”

Thursday, November 12th, 2009

12:00 AM CST on Wednesday, November 11, 2009

By DAVID FLICK / The Dallas Morning News
dflick@dallasnews.com

Even with her puckish sense of humor, no one could doubt that Carrie Gehling has faced serious health issues.

She lost both legs to a 40-year fight with diabetes and suffered four heart attacks, one of which left her clinically dead for 2 ½ minutes.

After years of dialysis, she needed a kidney transplant, but her medical history made her a high-risk candidate. Several hospitals had turned her down until Medical City Dallas Hospital earlier this year agreed to the procedure – with the provision that she find a live donor.

Among those she turned to for help was her pastor at St. Rita Catholic Church. Monsignor Mark Seitz is a popular and energetic priest who, when not tending to his flock, occasionally indulges in inline skating.

One day he was thinking about where Gehling could get a donor.

“And then I thought, why not me?”

He went through testing that proved he was an acceptable match. When he broke the news to Gehling, she responded with her usual wit.

“I said I was going to call it my holy kidney,” she recalled.

The transplant took place Tuesday morning. Later in the day, a spokesman at the northwest Dallas parish said the procedure had gone well. Both patients were conscious and recovering in their respective rooms at Medical City.

Gehling, 45, noted before the procedure that some scientists believe transplant recipients pick up some of the traits of the donors.

“I told people I hope I don’t pick up roller blading,” she said. “And I’m not going to become a nun.”

Seitz, 55, said before the procedure that he intended to set aside his blades for a stack of books during the weeks of recuperation.

He considers organ donation to be an extension of his pastoral duties.

Last summer, when he first heard that Gehling needed a kidney, “it got me thinking about what a priest does,” Seitz said. “We follow the model of one who literally gave his life for us. If he can lay down his life, I can give away a kidney.”

The attitude surprised no one at the church, where Seitz preaches on Sunday and Gehling teaches a catechism class to children.

“He’s always been there to help those who need him the most,” parishioner Michelle Chadwick said of Seitz.

She noted that he worked to establish a sister church in Honduras and, back in Dallas, inaugurated a Spanish-language Mass at the traditionally Anglo congregation.

Susan Scheetz, who worked with Gehling in the parish catechism classes, said she is a favorite among everyone who knows her.

“The kids adore her, and parents will drop by to ask how she’s doing,” Scheetz said. “I’ve never seen her without a smile on her face.”

Gehling said she did not always take life so light-heartedly or have such an easygoing relationship with the church.

“I lost my faith for a while when I was 20 and my father died of a heart attack,” she said.

She was so angry that although she had been a longtime parishioner, she avoided driving past St. Rita’s on her way to work.

“Then one day, I woke up and thought, ‘What in the world is wrong with you?’ ” she recalled. “If my father had lived after that heart attack, he would have been a vegetable. What the Lord did was for the best.

“There’s only one way to put it: Thy will be done.”

Both said they have been overwhelmed by support from the parish – and beyond.

On Monday night, parishioners gathered for a special rosary service, and Seitz said parishioners have spread the word everywhere.

“There are people all over the world praying for us,” he said.

Gehling said before the operation that she was eagerly looking forward to the procedure.

“When you’re high-risk, there are people who don’t think you’re going to make it, but I say, ‘You don’t know me,’ ” she said. “There’s more in life that I want to accomplish.”

http://www.dallasnews.com/sharedcontent/dws/news/localnews/stories/DN-kidneydonor_11met.ART.State.Edition2.4b76347.html

“75-year-old grandma is Singapore’s oldest living organ donor”

Wednesday, October 28th, 2009

75-year-old grandma is Singapore’s oldest living organ donor
By Hetty Musfirah Abdul Khamid, Channel NewsAsia | Posted: 14 October 2009 2108 hrs

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75-year-old grandma is Singapore’s oldest living organ donor

SINGAPORE: A 75-year-old grandmother has become Singapore’s oldest living organ donor. Madam Chee Leng Yin donated one of her kidneys to save her seriously-ill daughter.

They say nothing is stronger than the bond between a mother and her daughter.

When Madam Chee found out that she could save her daughter’s life by donating a kidney to her, she did not think twice.

She said: “It’s my kidney, it’s my daughter, who can stop me? Once I’ve decided, no one can stop me.”

46-year-old Shirley Lau suffered from end-stage kidney failure and needed a kidney transplant to lead a normal life. Even so, she had reservations about her mother’s sacrifice.

She said: “The feeling is quite complicated because in a way I’m worried, but in a way it is a solution for me. They (the doctors) went through a lot of tests. So based on that fact, we were more assured.”

Months after the surgery at the Singapore General Hospital (SGH) in July, both mother and daughter are doing well.

Doctors say being too old to donate is a common misconception about organ donation. Evidence suggests that older healthy donors are not at a higher risk of surgical complications compared to younger donors.

So more older living donors above the age of 60 could be considered for surgery, if they are found to be mentally and psychologically suitable.

Doctors say that on average, the age difference between an older living donor and the recipient should be 10 to 20 years. But in Madam Chee and Shirley’s case, their age difference of nearly 30 years is an exception.

Dr Terence Kee, a consultant at SGH’s Department of Renal Medicine, said: “There was special consideration, based on the fact that Shirley’s mum’s kidney function is far beyond average expectation and also the fact that Shirley is a much smaller person who would benefit from receiving her mother’s kidney, which is … bigger in size.”

Studies have shown that the survival rate of up to five years is the same for all patients who receive kidneys from living donors, irrespective of whether the donors are young or old. In contrast, kidney patients who are on dialysis have a lower survival rate.

About 1,000 people in Singapore suffer from kidney failure every year. At present, over 500 people are on the waiting list for a kidney.

SGH carried out 10 living kidney transplants last year.

Landlord fixes tenant’s faucet, then kidney

Tuesday, October 27th, 2009

It all started with a leaky faucet.

James Love is a fit-looking man, but he was born with sickle cell anemia — recently it’s gotten so bad he’s suffered from chronic renal failure. He needed kidney dialysis three times a week. Out of work and on disability, he’d recently moved with his wife and their six children to a rental home in Sleepy Hollow, Illinois.

But on one eventful day, all he wanted was to stop the constant drip-drip-drip from the bathroom. So his wife spoke with their landlord, Barbara Thomas.

Thomas fixed the faucet. Then she gave him a new kidney. Seriously.

“My friend, she’s now my sister, Miss Barbara Thomas,” Love said. “She’s just a wonderful lady. She’s a wonderful lady.”

But Love didn’t believe her at first. Plenty of people are quick to offer their kidneys, James says, but very few follow through with the donation. Plus, his O-negative blood type is rare. Only one in 16 people in the United States have it, according to the Stanford School of Medicine. While living on dialysis for three years, James had watched 11 people in his situation die.

And although one of Love’s children and Thomas’s son had been friends for years, the two parents had never met before he moved in last December.

But Thomas was determined. “I had to ask him three or four times for the information on how to get tested,” said Thomas who, in addition to her landlord duties, works full-time as a legal secretary in Chicago. “I don’t think he believed I would really do it.”

But she did it almost nonchalantly.

“It was like I heard a voice saying in my head, ‘It is you.’ I didn’t really think about it. I just did it.”

Thomas, who just came home from the Loyola Medical Center in Maywood, says she’s still sore. She’s taking a six-week unpaid leave of absence to recover. Love is coming off his IV this week, and should go home thereafter.

“All I just know, I had to trust God,” Love said. “God will make a way for me to get a kidney. I don’t want to put it off on somebody and say, ‘Well, this person didn’t get tested,’ or ‘This person, you know, drew back,’ because the people that I’m surrounded with, they all love me. I have no doubt about that.”

For her part, Thomas is not stopping with just one donation.

Taking over a small fundraising operation James started called “Heal With Love,” Barbara filed for 501c non-profit status and she plans to start helping other families with medical bills associated with kidney transplants soon.

That’s just what this landlord does: helps families, one leaky faucet — and failing kidney — at a time..
First Published: Oct 26, 2009 12:22 PM CDT

Md. Woman Gets Unexpected Kidney

Thursday, October 22nd, 2009

Updated: Monday, 19 Oct 2009, 11:59 PM EDT
Published : Monday, 19 Oct 2009, 10:46 PM EDT

* Sherri Ly Sherri Ly
* By SHERRI LY/myfoxdc

BALTIMORE, Md. – Two women brought together by an unexpected match, underwent kidney transplant surgery Monday morning at The Johns Hopkins Hospital.

The anticipation has been building for months, leading up to the surgery. Etienne Cromer, a 23-year-old woman from Bowie, Maryland was diagnosed with a genetic kidney disorder at 16. She was weakened by the disease and constant dialysis.

Her donor, Kendra Dill, of Severn, Maryland is not related by blood but doctors say was as near perfect match, as close as a parent to a child. Kendra and Etienne’s mother have worked together and shared a friendship for more than 15 years. On Monday morning, Kendra is giving Etienne a second chance.

Kendra arrived at Johns Hopkins around 5:30 a.m. to get prepped for surgery. As the doctor explained the procedure, Kendra clutched a photo of her husband and two children. She is overcome by the gravity of it all.

“I’m nervous. I’m putting my faith in God and the doctors here,” Kendra told FOX 5 just before going into the operating room with the photo at her side.

Down the hall, Etienne, was nervous, too.

“It was almost funny because I almost didn’t want to get out of bed. I was like okay, I just want to go back to sleep and have someone carry me to the car,” Etienne recalled after waking up this morning. She arrived at the hospital about an hour after Kendra.

For the past seven years of her life, Etienne has been in and out of hospitals battling a genetic kidney disorder. She is just 23 years old.

Over the years, the disease weakened her body. She went to the prom on crutches and had two hip replacements, but after having a baby last year, her kidneys began to fail. Doctors said she needed a transplant.

The dialysis, three times a week, three to four hours each time, became like a part-time job.

“You feel wasted. You feel exhausted. It’s almost like you’ve run a marathon. You don’t have any energy,” said Etienne told FOX 5 when we first met her, four days before the surgery.

Now that the day has arrived, Etienne and Kendra’s families gathered in the hospital waiting room as the two women were wheeled into the operating room. It was an emotional day for Carol Cromer. The donor is a friend and co-worker, and the recipient is her daughter.

Etienne says she doesn’t think it will feel any different having Kendra’s kidney. Then her mother joked, “If all of a sudden you want to go to NASCAR racing I know it will be because you have Kendra’s kidney.” Apparently Kendra is quite A NASCAR fan.

Kendra had been prepared to donate before. Five years ago, her brother needed a kidney transplant. She and her sister were matches but he was diagnosed with lung cancer a short time later. Now she has the opportunity to help Etienne.

Kendra went into surgery first. Doctors went in through tiny incisions, working with a microscopic camera to separate the kidney from blood vessels and a vein. Then they placed the kidney into a bag and removed it through an opening only a few inches wide. Dr. Robert Montgomery Chief of Transplantation for Johns Hopkins said “the kidney was gorgeous, a beautiful kidney.”

The kidney was then flushed and put on ice, awaiting transplantation to Etienne. Dr. Montgomery says using a live donor has a huge advantage. Kidneys from live donors he says last twice as long as those from deceased donors, and tend to work immediately with less chance of rejection. It also allows you to bypass the wait on the transplant list for a deceased donor, which averages about five years.

“If you use a live donor kidney transplant, you don’t have to wait in line you can receive the kidney immediately,” the surgeon said.

Kendra downplayed her altruism. “Someone called me a hero and I really don’t consider it heroism,” Kendra said.

While Dr. Montgomery says a donor operation is considered “safe”, the stakes are high. “It’s very unique because a person is undergoing surgery not for themselves but for someone else,” Dr. Montgomery said.

Doctors say the number of organ donors has remained constant, making the need for more live donors critical.

“I’m hoping that in people seeing me do it that if they’re ever given the opportunity approached with the same situation that maybe they might think of my story and Etienne’s story,” Kendra said.

The two women were friends before. Now they’re like family.

“We’ll probably be spending holidays together and it’ll probably be like having a sister,” Etienne imagined.

Doctors say the prognosis is good for both women and they should live a normal and health life. Etienne hasn’t traveled in at least five years because of her health. Now she’s planning her next vacation, a trip to Aruba next year.

“Kidney donor runs Chicago Marathon 368 days later”

Tuesday, October 13th, 2009

Organ recipient there to greet her at end of 26.2-mile journey

Paul Oren – Times Correspondent | Posted: Monday, October 12, 2009 12:00 am |

CHICAGO | Each of the 37,942 participants in Sunday’s Chicago Marathon had a story as to how they arrived at the finish line, but few were more touching than that of Cori Goodfellow.

Goodfellow decided this year that she was going to run the 26.2-mile race only after she was fully recovered from donating a kidney to her friend Kristy Swenson. The Valparaiso resident underwent the procedure Oct. 8, 2008, and began training for the marathon almost immediately after her recovery.

“I had run many half-marathons before but never a whole,” Goodfellow said. “I never could find the inspiration, but with everything that happened, I wanted this feat for myself.”

Even before she donated a kidney to Swenson, Goodfellow’s own journey toward her 26.2-mile destination was uncertain. When she was 8 years old, Goodfellow was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis among a litany of other health problems.

“The doctors told me that eventually I wouldn’t be walking,” Goodfellow said. “I’ve been in remission for years now, but I have to exercise every day to keep my joints from hurting. That’s how I got to running.”

Running the long distance of the marathon was one thing, but doing so 368 days after donating a kidney was quite another. Goodfellow and Swenson are friends through a volleyball league at Calvary Church in Valparaiso, but they weren’t initially close enough that Swenson would expect to receive a kidney transplant from Goodfellow.

“We were kind of hi and bye friends,” Swenson said. “When she first offered to donate her kidney to me, I told her I appreciated it, but no thanks. Then she called me again and said she was serious. Obviously, we have grown very close.”

Swenson knew that if she didn’t find a donor soon, her health would start to deteriorate quickly, so the pair went through the tests and Goodfellow came back a blood match. As both recovered from the procedure, Goodfellow started talking about running in the Chicago Marathon.

“I have always prayed for her to be blessed because of what she’s done for me,” Swenson said. “It makes me feel great knowing that she’s healthy and doing wonderfully. I love the fact that’s she running and doing marathons.”

Initially, Swenson didn’t think she’d be able to make it to Chicago on Sunday to cheer on her friend. Swenson’s mother, Ricky, is set to receive a kidney transplant next week, but, ultimately, Swenson couldn’t keep herself away.

Goodfellow crossed the finish line at four hours, 12 minutes, 39 seconds, and Swenson was right there to greet her with a big hug.

“She called me yesterday and told me that she was going to be able to make it,” Goodfellow said. “It was awesome. I definitely think I’ll do one again.”

Chicago Marathon

More than 45,000 runners registered

37,942 started the race

33,419 finished the 26.2 mile contest

Sammy Wanjiru, of Kenya, won the marathon with the fastest time on American soil, finishing in 2 hours, 5 minutes and 41 seconds.

Posted in Porter on Monday, October 12, 2009

http://www.nwitimes.com/news/local/porter/5e5ba48f-1c4f-5a45-8964-fb098168e46d.html
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Would you give life to someone else if you didn’t have to give up your own?

Tuesday, September 22nd, 2009

Doing Good Deeds: Teacher donates kidney to student

September 16, 2009 By SUSANA ENRIQUEZ susana.enriquez@newsday.com

Jennifer Mazzotta-Perretti never expected that, after giving students an assignment to write about their experiences doing good deeds, she would have the opportunity to do one herself.

One student in her summer creative writing class at Nassau BOCES in Wantagh posed the question: Would you give life to someone else if you didn’t have to give up your own? She said yes, she would.

Then he asked if she would donate one of her kidneys – to him. Again, she said yes.

At the time the student, Kevin O’Brien, didn’t need a transplant. Later, when he did, he remembered her answer and asked her again.

She pledged that she would, not expecting it to work out because the odds were against two unrelated people being a match.

But after a blood donor card arrived in the mail stating that her blood type was O positive – the same as his – she felt compelled to undergo more testing and learned that their match went beyond blood.

That’s when the single mother of one from Levittown prayed – and decided to go through with the donation.

“It was an awesome feeling that I was going to help this kid with more than reading and writing,” said Mazzotta-Perretti, 32, who is also the special education director at the Hebrew Academy of the Five Towns & Rockaway.

On Sept. 3 at Columbia University Medical Center, Mazzotta-Perretti fulfilled her promise and gave 19-year-old O’Brien one of her kidneys.

O’Brien said that after years of feeling tired, he immediately felt energized.

“You wake up and you’re like, ‘Whoa, is this for real?’ ” said O’Brien, of Oyster Bay. “I feel better than I have in quite some time.”

When he was 3, blood drawn from a finger prick led to the discovery of an obstruction in one of his ureters – tubes that connect the kidneys to the bladder – that was causing urine to back up and damage the right kidney.

Within months, surgeons implanted the tube deeper into the kidney to prevent the reflux. Two years later, the same procedure was necessary for his left kidney. But the surgeries were a temporary fix: Doctors said he would eventually need a kidney transplant.

A decade later, on July 1, 2005, O’Brien received a kidney from his father, Neil. But soon after, that kidney began to fail because the drugs he was taking to keep his body from rejecting the new kidney made him susceptible to a virus, which damaged the kidney.

His mother, Heidi, wasn’t a match for her son and tried to arrange a kidney swap: She would donate a kidney to someone she did match – and who, in turn, would provide a willing donor who was a match for Kevin.

That strategy didn’t pay off, and Kevin’s name was put on a waiting list – where it could have taken him eight years to get to the top.

“We were devastated,” said Heidi O’Brien, 52, of Oyster Bay. “We had done everything we could do.”

Then Mazzotta-Perretti called her and said she would give Kevin her kidney. Heidi O’Brien said she was “in awe that a person would do that for my child.”

“We are so grateful to Jennifer,” she said.

To pay Mazzotta-Perretti’s favor forward, Kevin O’Brien said he wants to work with scientists to clone human organs. He said he also wants to encourage people to donate the organs of their deceased loved ones and pledge to donate their own organs when they die.

“Give the organs to someone who can use them,” he said.

But first, now that his health is improving, O’Brien will have to finish his junior and senior years of high school.

Looking back on his quest for a donor, O’Brien said the best thing he did was put his teacher on the spot.

“You gotta not be afraid to ask for what you need,” he said. “I needed a kidney and I have it.”

http://www.newsday.com/long-island/nassau/nassau-boces-teacher-donates-kidney-to-student-1.1453840
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Ariz. woman finds taxi driver is a kidney match

Tuesday, August 25th, 2009

PHOENIX – Rita Van Loenen had no idea that a trip in Thomas Chappell’s taxi cab could end up being the ride that saves her life.

“There are better odds of getting struck by lightning,” Van Loenen said. “A random taxi driver offering to give me his kidney and all these pieces match. There has to be something behind this. How can this be?”

Chappell, who has been driving Van Loenen to dialysis appointments, shocked the Gilbert, Ariz., woman a month ago by offering to donate his kidney. But even more shocking to her was that doctors found they had the same blood type, that they were compatible.

“He calls me all excited. If we were a closer match, we would’ve been siblings. I was ready to fall off the floor,” Van Loenen said.

The Phoenix taxi driver said he was a man of faith and that a higher power wanted him to step in.

“By then, me and the good Lord already had a talk. He said ‘Tom, you go give her one. It will work,” Chappell said.

Diagnosed with kidney disease last year, Van Loenen, an instructor in special-education methods, began feeling ill and experiencing water retention in her legs. She went to see a doctor and was diagnosed with kidney disease. With kidney failure setting in, friends and family were tested but there was no match.

In February, she received her cousin’s kidney but that transplant failed. One day, Van Loenen, 63, found herself telling Chappell, 56, about how her son was now going to get tested. Chappell decided to add his name to the list.

“I said ‘Rita, your son’s a whole lot younger than me. He’s got a lot more years. I’m gonna go down and go through the process and see if it will work.’ I don’t think she really believed I was going to.”

The gesture evoked tears of gratitude from Loenen but she was still skeptical.

“A little bit in my heart I didn’t believe it. He said ‘give me the number’ and I have transplant number at Mayo (Clinic in Scottsdale) memorized.”

The two first met more than three months ago. It wasn’t an auspicious beginning.

Chappell was half an hour late picking Van Loenen up for a dialysis appointment.

“When I got there she was not happy,” Chappell said. “And I can understand it now. She’s sick and all these things she goes through … The next day, it just so happens I got her again.”

Since then he has — and he insists it is by happenstance — been her taxi driver three to four times a month. For the last month, Chappell has started undergoing the arduous process of donor screening, undergoing numerous tests and exams. But none of it has brought second thoughts.

“This has put a whole new kind of lift in my boots. I never knew what it felt like to give somebody life and that’s what I’m doing,” Chappell said.

Van Loenen said Chappell never asked for any compensation. She still can’t quite believe his level of commitment.

“I’ve never known anybody so enthusiastic to get a body part removed,” Van Loenen said.

After the transplant, which hasn’t been scheduled yet, Chappell will need to tread carefully. He will have to rest between four and six weeks but his work has promised to cover his lost wages.

“I’ve had drivers do some pretty incredibly amazing things for no charge. But this is just over the top,” said Jim Hickey, national sales and marketing director for the company that owns VIP Taxi. “We’re just so proud of him.”

Van Loenen said that, thanks to Chappell, she can actually make plans for the future.

“Whenever I tell my friends or my family, they just find it so incredible,” Van Loenen said. “They do call him an angel. My friend says there’s angels everywhere. That’s the right way to capture it.”