If Mary Patalita ever needs a kidney, she’ll go to top of list
By Ellie Bogue
of The News-Sentinel
It’s one thing to donate money, food or clothing, but how many people would be willing to donate an organ without first knowing the recipient?
For Mary Patalita, it was an easy choice. She recently donated a kidney without knowing who would be on the receiving end.
“I had a high school friend, my same age, who donated one altruistically and it got me thinking, why not?” Patalita, 63, said. She recently donated a kidney at the Lutheran Hospital Kidney Transplant Center.
“Altruistic donors are not all that common, but we do have a few,” Valerie Barto, a registered nurse and Living Donor Coordinator for the center, said.
Lutheran Hospital’s Kidney Transplant Center, which opened in 2007, is the only one in the region. Since then, 86 transplants have been performed at the unit, with 45 of those coming from living donors. They do two to three transplants a month. Nineteen have been performed this year, with 12 of those coming from living donors; no more than three have been altruistic.
Barto says a person can very easily live a normal healthy life with one kidney.
“We often find patients who need a new kidney may have been living with only one kidney all their lives and never knew it until something went wrong with it,” Barto said.
Patalita got a few objections from her family.
“My son wanted to know what would happen if something went wrong with the one kidney I had left,” said Patalita.
That is one of the questions frequently asked by donors, and Patalita was told a donor goes to the top of the waiting list should something go wrong with their one remaining kidney.
“Normally there is a two-to-three year wait for a kidney, but if you are a donor you go to the top of the list,” Barto concurs.
“The donation cost me nothing,” Patalita said.
All of her medical bills were either covered by the recipient’s insurance or the Lutheran Transplant Center through Medicare.
“If a donor gets a bill, they are told to forward it to us and we will take care of it,” Barto said.
This means all the blood work and X-rays a donor goes through before the surgery, to make sure they are healthy, is paid for, as is their surgery, hospital stay, and even the pain medication they receive after the operation. The Transplant Center will also keep in touch with them for the next several years to make sure their body has adjusted to the change.
The kidney donation is done by laparoscopic surgery. Patalita has four 1-inch incisions on her abdomen, with a slightly longer one over her navel.
“I think that’s where they took it out,” Patalita said.
Patalita met the recipient, a 70-year-old man and his wife, two weeks before the surgery. She says they thanked her for her generosity. While she was recovering from surgery, she paid him a quick visit.
“His room was right across the hall from mine,” Patalita said.
“Donors do not have to meet their recipients if they don’t want to; it is totally up to them,” Barto said.
“I feel like I really gave this man his life back,” Patalita said. “He was spending three days a week in dialysis before the surgery.”
Now that she is recovering, she would like to get the word out about how easy it is to give someone the gift of a new life through a kidney transplant.
“I feel completely at peace with my decision to do this. I feel it was something God wanted me to do,” Patalita said.
For more information on how to donate a kidney, contact Barto at 435-6211.